Signs you’re the energetic cycle breaker in your family + how to navigate it

Signs you’re stuck in your family’s patterns, and how to know if it’s time for an energetic breakthrough so you can stop repeating their past, and start creating your future.

The #1 theme I’ve seen in almost every single one of my private clients is this: they all hold the energetic cycle breaker role in their family.

Ergo, they were the one that, on the other side when we were all floating around in the upstairs, volunteered to come down and take on an extra workload. It is a decision you made before you were born, a soul contract.

It’s like being the kid in the group project who set the deadlines, edited the final project, and handed out the assignments….and did 90% of the work.

Tough? Yes. Important? Absolutely.

Being the energetic cycle breaker is an important job.

Signs you are the energetic cycle breaker in your family:

✨ It feels like literally you are the only one doing the work, reading the books, going to therapy, listening to podcasts, and making one twinge of effort.

✨ Other family members (often, subconsciously) see you as their saviour, and project a lot of their desires/needs on you because they can feel, often intuitively, like you hold a lot of wisdom and answers.

✨ You have a generational/ancestral history of slavery, genocide, famine, or war (among others) that has deeply affected your lineage and impacted your family’s ability to thrive and create success – until you came along.

✨ You’ve always felt a little different, like you could pick up on things other people couldn’t.

✨ You draw in and attract, people who were intrinsically pulled to your light, even if they are triggered by you.

And here are some of the key signs you are NOT moving the needle enough energetically to break the cycles effectively, clear old patterns, and free yourself up to manifest new energetic cycles with that free space:

✨ You might not be in touch with some relatives, but you’re still scared of their judgements/perceptions of you

✨ You carry shame from stepping outside of your family lineage in any way, such as in your line of work or career

✨You still seek the approval of other placeholder energies – such as a boss at work who energetically feels like a Mom, even though she’s not your mom, per say

✨ You take a lot of time for yourself because other people exhaust you, because you’re still mirroring the energetic patterns from your family

So…what’s the true cost of staying stuck in these energetic cycles and patterns?

✨  You might be unconsciously sacrificing yourself to keep the peace

✨  You’re not moving forward with your own goals, ambitions, and visions because you aren’t energetically creating the framework to bring them to life, to birth them

✨  You stay stuck in someone else’s mud, on someone else’s term, when you are literally free to go do and be whatever you want, you just don’t feel it.

✨  You allow past memories and trauma to dictate what you create moving forward. Instead of living in the future, you live in the past.

Here’s what I see when I look into my client’s energies around their ancestral and generational patterns:

The truth is, when I see clients with deep cycles that are held deeply in their energies all I see is what they were born to break out of.

This stuff, this stuff from your family, is not your destiny, I promise you that.

Because when I sit in session with them, all I can truly see is what’s underneath.

The magic. The beauty. The vision for what’s to come into their lives. The new, birthing waters that are creating reality as we speak.