3 Tips For Energetic Fallout: What To Do When Your Old Life Falls Apart & How To Move Into Higher Alignment
Listen, we’ve all been there. We ask for something good, and the Universe delivers. The conundrum? Sometimes, in this quest for ascension, what requires us to grow also requires us to face darkness, cut certain people off, and relinquish situations that we no longer need.
The other conundrum? Sometimes we like our messiness. We like overspending at Whole Foods. We like our weird little habits that are secretly hurting us. We like the old identities that get that cozy, familiar love from the people we once held near and dear to us.
But when you get a little closer to your purpose, align a little more to what you actually want and need in your life? You gotta make space, baby. Space!
I once learned a powerful lesson on clearing space when, one summer, I cleaned out my entire closet only to find that someone had dropped a dress on my front step the following morning. Coincidence? I think not.
They say, the Universe abhors a vacuum.
Tip #1: Surrender
If something in your life is trying to leave, let it.
Sometimes, clinging to the old is worse than trying to hold on. The newness might bring discomfort, change, or anxiety – but the old? She gotta go. Hasta la vista, baby!
Sit down, chill out, relax, and put your palms up to receive. It’s a powerful energetic signals that can kickstart revolutions and end old cycles. Tune into the energy to receive.
Tip #2: Relax and Let Go Of Control
When you try to control the outcome of any situation you are in, regardless of the magnitude, it can actually cramp up your ability to receive intuitive downloads, guidance.
Control = cramped, contracted energy.
Relax = expanded, receiving, letting life flow energy.
We need both to be alive. Control through awareness, discipline and action. Relaxation through receiving, flow, and intuition. A balance of both is important.
Tip #3: Have Gratitude
Reframe every shift like this: OMG, I’m getting a big upgrade so this pure is happening, this sh*t I’ve been trying to clear for years is happening, and I’m being called into a higher timeline.
Think of it like a portal is opening to a new chapter in your life. Have gratitude, put on a Britney Spears song, dance a little bit, and celebrate. Pop the champagne, or if you’re like me, do both, and add a trip to your favourite crystal store to the list.
(Not kidding, either!)
